Who is at fault?
All of us at some point in time are hurt by people close to us. Their behaviour towards us, their breach of our trust in them, their ignorance towards us (despite of the fact that we treat them as numero UNO!), their priority changes as per certain circumstances, which can be anything, certain people coming and going, certain events happening around you."Who is at fault?" You and your expectations or person who is over whelmed by the circumstances around him or her to be able to handle them properly?
If it is us who have certain expectation from the person in front, then I have certain questions which I can not answer for myself,
1. Did they ask you to treat them Numero Uno?
2. Did they ever promise they will ccertianly keep us as their high priority people?
3. Did they tell you to pin many of your hopes on them? Did they give any such commitment?
4. Are you really that dependant that you need cruches of support to go ahead in your life?
If the answer to 4 is yes, then please find one and learn to walk, that will help you avoid falling in to something like this again. And well if your answer is No, then you probably by now know what to do to imporve your condition, so what are you wanting for? Go get it...
I do not think you need to analyse the other side of the coin, if the other people are the reason, coz if we do not have a problem it is fine if we ignore the other part for finding fault...
"Do not expect return when you invest!!!!!!"
posted by Rudra aka Atul Shashank Kulkarni @ 10:46 AM
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